Melanie Conn

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Birth & Postpartum Doula
Richmond, Virginia
7 years of experience
5.0
About me

My aim is to earn the trust of my clients to guide them through their perinatal experiences and choices, but more impactfully to connect them with their own intrinsic wisdom and intuition. Supporting the PARTNER (if applicable) to support the birthing person through labor is my approach (dictated by comfort level, obviously) . As someone with a history of ED and body dysmorphia I have a passion for supporting people who have had or do have similar struggles. I am relatedly an active advocate against medical fatphobia and the associated myriad of non-evidence based biases against fat pregnant folks. My work is informed greatly by my own perinatal experiences, particularly in the realms of both birth plans and feeding plans changing, and the importance of the diagnosis and treatment of later onset postpartum mood disorders. In my free time I like to dismantle systems of white supremacy and patriarchy, tend to my indoor jungle, and build marble mazes with my kiddo.

Education

Master of Music Performance (2013)

Certification and training

Birth Doula certification, MyBirth (2023)

BADT postpartum doula training (2023)

toLabor birth doula training (2016)

Memberships and affiliations

Postpartum Support International

Specialties
Acupressure During Labor Addictions Advanced Maternal Age Anxiety and Depression Aromatherapy Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) Birth and Lactation Birth Assistant Birth Doula Birth Support Birth Trauma Breastfeeding Assistance and Support Breastfeeding Support Childbirth Education Chronic Pain Contraception and Family Planning Endometriosis Evidence-Based Care Exclusive Pumping/Bottle Feeding Fathers' Issues Fibroids HAES (Health at Every Size) Approach High Risk and Low Intervention Obstetrical Care High-Risk Pregnancy Home Birth Hormone Imbalances Hypnobirthing Method Infant Care Infertility Labor Doula LGBTQ+ Low Milk Supply/Over Supply Massage Mental Health Midwife Support Mindfulness Mood Disorders Multiples Natural Birth Natural Childbirth Newborn Care Nipple and Breast Pain Nutritional Counseling Overnight Newborn Care Pain Management Panic Parenting Parenting Support Pelvic Pain Perinatal and Infant Loss Perinatal Anxiety and Depression Perinatal Mood Disorders Postpartum Care Postpartum Depression Postpartum Doula Care Pregnancy Complications Pregnancy Loss Premature Infants Relaxation Techniques Reproductive Mental Health Returning to work (pumping, breastmilk storage, etc) Self-Compassion Self-Esteem Sexual Health Spirituality Stress Management Support during Labor, Birth, and Postpartum Support in Pregnancy Loss Vaginal Birth After Cesarean (VBAC)
Languages

English

Accepted insurances
Carrot
Service introduction

My aim is to earn the trust of my clients to guide them through their perinatal experiences and choices, but more impactfully to connect them with their own intrinsic wisdom and intuition. Supporting the PARTNER (if applicable, and within their comfort) to support the birthing person through labor is my approach. As someone with a history of ED and body dysmorphia I have a passion for supporting people who have had or do have similar struggles. I am relatedly an active advocate against medical fatphobia and the associated myriad of non-evidence based biases against fat pregnant folks. My work is informed greatly by my own perinatal experiences, particularly in the realms of both birth plans and feeding plans changing, and the importance of the diagnosis and treatment of later onset postpartum mood disorders. In my free time I like to dismantle systems of white supremacy and patriarchy, tend to my indoor jungle, and build marble mazes with my kiddo.

Packages
Birth doula support (option of postpartum doula support for birth clients only)
WHAT IS INCLUDED IN MY FEE: ● I will be available via text, phone, and email from the time that I receive your signed contract and deposit (amount upfront is negotiable!). I will be there to answer any questions that you all have, give encouragement and hold space, point you to evidence-based information, and recommend resources for ways to improve your pregnancy. ● You will have a breadth of knowledge and experience at your fingertips; MyBirth specially cultivates and curates resources designed to support families birthing SPECIFICALLY in Richmond. Every client of mine receives a Welcome Packet full of helpful articles and info to get you headed towards a satisfying birth. I will continue to share more readings and resources as your pregnancy progresses. You also have access to the MyBirth book and DVD lending library. ● Five prenatal meetings*: 1) intake meeting, 2) virtual group prenatal class for optimal nutrition and health in pregnancy, 3) virtual group prenatal class for pelvic floor health, 4) in-person group prenatal with me and my backup doulas as well as the other parents expecting their baby(s) in the same time period. This visit will be an opportunity to get to know the other MyBirth doulas in my circle, build community, and learn more about birth and what to expect on the big day. 5) The last prenatal is one-on-one in your home with me. This is when will cover the personal side of birth: your concerns and goals, how I can best serve and support you and your partner during your labor and postpartum, reviewing your Birth Preferences, doing a walk-through of your space to give and get ideas of what can be used to your benefit when you labor at home, and going over any other questions you may have. PLEASE NOTE: DUE TO COVID-19, SOME GROUP APPOINTMENTS MAY BE CONDUCTED VIRTUALLY; WE DO EVERYTHING TO KEEP PARENTS SAFE, AND GROUP OPPORTUNITIES WILL BE DETERMINED BY COVID-19 TRANSMISSION RATES AT THAT TIME/DATE. ● My 24/7 availability from week 38 of your pregnancy until the birth of your child(ren), plus the peace of mind that comes with having met the other doulas in my group in the RARE event that I am unable to attend your birth. ● My continuous support through the entirety of your birth, both over the phone and in person. Carefully considering your goals for how you would like to experience childbirth (as well as considering you as a person as I’ve gotten to know you in the time leading up to your labor), I will tailor my encouragement to your wants and needs, meeting you where you are and offering unwavering support for your decisions. ● Two postpartum visits*, one while you are in the hospital the day or so after birth, the other within a week or so of your arrival home. These visits will focus on easing your transition into life with baby, your recovery from childbirth, and getting a solid foundation on the basics of feeding your baby. ● Continued support from me via text, email, and phone as you progress through the first days, weeks, and months of parenthood. At this point I typically am your doula-turned-friend forever! *Repeat clients and those planning to birth out-of-hospital have slightly different prenatal and postpartum appointment schedules. Feel free to contact me for the specifics in these scenarios! I strongly and deeply believe that finances should not be a barrier between expectant parents and the care that they deserve. I don’t do my heart work for the money, but I also have to survive under capitalism. On a case by case basis and at my own discretion I am able to offer discounted rates if you present a real inability to pay my full base rate and I feel that we are a really good fit for each other.
$1,700.00
USD Flat rate
Ratings and reviews
Average
5.0
# of Reviews
4
5.0

To say that Melanie was an incredible doula falls woefully short of the experience we've had with her bringing our baby girl into the world. Melanie was our guide and partner across so many different areas of birth, labor, and beyond that we could not possibly hope to effectively capture in a brief testimonial here. From the outset, Melanie's primary concern was to get to know us and our story, and to deeply understand our goals, concerns, blindspots, and fears around our daughter's birth. She never pushed for us to take a specific direction in terms of a birth plan, and was clear that she would support, regardless of the specific direction we wanted to take. She helped us in developing a birth plan that felt right for our circumstances and goals, and demystified the process of labor and delivery in a way that made us feel calm and confident going in. She was an incredible partner and advocate during our time in the hospital. She went above and beyond to make sure we were as comfortable as possible in our room, made herself available to answer our questions and provide coaching in the middle of the night as we progressed through early labor, and was there at our side as a guide and champion during active labor and pushing. After the birth of our child, Melanie continued to stand by us and provide invaluable coaching and wisdom on what we should expect in the early days out of the hospital. She's continued to make herself available by text message for random questions and panicked brain darts as they come up, and has helped us tremendously in sorting through the beautiful mess of life with a newborn. Beyond all of that, Melanie is a fun, funny, and wonderful human. We genuinely feel that we could not have gotten here without Melanie. Working with her as our doula was one of the best life decisions we’ve ever made.

- Mariana C.

5.0

We had such a wonderful experience working with Melanie as our birth doula. This was our first baby, so my husband and I did not know what to expect from the journey, but we knew we needed someone to guide us. Melanie was instrumental in making my childbirth goals a reality - we genuinely couldn’t have done it without her! We knew instantly that Melanie would be the right person for us after meeting with her. My husband and I are both pretty low key so we knew that we’d need someone to give us direction and support. Melanie was invaluable throughout the pregnancy journey. She was always available for our questions or concerns and helped us with evidence-based advice and support. It was so comforting to have someone to turn to with the million thoughts and questions that come up. Melanie was so patient and understanding of our feelings as first-time parents. One of my favorite things about Melanie is how nonjudgmental she is. She is the human embodiment of a ‘safe space’. Pregnancy/childbirth is such a vulnerable time, and it was so amazing to have a support system that I felt comfortable with. I knew that she would have my back and advocate for me no matter what I chose or how things unfolded. This was especially important for me because I had very little family support during my pregnancy/birth. It meant so much to know she was there for me. Melanie was a rockstar during the birth experience. She helped guide me through different positions when needed, reminded me of helpful coping skills, and was extremely hands-on with her support during labor. We chose to have an unmedicated hospital birth, and it was so wonderful to have someone there who (1) had experienced this all before, and (2) was not a staff member of the hospital. Melanie worked great with the hospital staff and made sure I had the information and time I needed when making different choices in the process. I was also amazed by how much Melanie’s presence helped my husband and his ability to support me during the experience. During pregnancy, he really liked having someone to run questions by and get feedback from. During labor, it was so helpful for him to have another person he knew & trusted in the room to support me. Melanie also supported him significantly - from reminding him to take a break and eat something to giving suggestions during labor. Afterwards my husband said that hiring Melanie was the best choice we made! We cannot recommend Melanie enough - she is such a wonderful person and exactly who you need in a room with you during labor. Her confidence, energy, and care are unmatched. I know I wouldn’t have been able to have the same experience without her and we are forever grateful for all her help!

- Shayna H.

5.0

There truly aren't enough words to describe our experience with Melanie as our doula. From the very minute that I sent in my inquiry form, I knew I had chosen the right doula to be on this journey of pregnancy and postpartum with. Melanie has a very calming aura about her but will also never hesitate to speak up and advocate for you. Melanie not only served as our doula, but as a confidant, 24/7 support system, educator, and now, our forever family. I will always recommend Melanie to any and everyone. You won't regret the decision of hiring her to support you along your journey to motherhood!

- Hala L.

5.0

When finding out we were expecting, there was no doubt that hiring a doula would be one of the most important investments we could make. After a few interviews, we selected Melanie with MyBirth to guide us as first time parents on our journey. I had a plan to achieve an unmedicated birth in a hospital setting. Melanie was an essential part of making my dream labor and delivery experience happen! Melanie is sincere, wise, and has a true gift as a doula to be the support you and your partner need when navigating labor and delivery. We were able to labor at home comfortably and make it to the hospital at the perfect time, making it possible for me to have the least amount of interventions possible and achieve an unmedicated birth. She kept my husband calm and reassured when labor started to pick up. She was available to answer any questions we had from the initial meeting to our postpartum visit. We will both continue to sing her praises for years to come for all the love and support she provided to us. We couldn't have asked for a better first time experience. I can't wait to do it all again with Melanie by our side in the future! If you are looking for a doula who will hear you out, offer suggestions and knowledge as the expert she is, and make you feel empowered- look no further! 

- Marissa S.

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